Should we test drive –have sex before marriage. Yes, and No. Find out how. by WPPJr

Men can change after minute of pleasure so you can't tell which sex will lead to marriage. Best to abstain until appropriate time.

Penis that is working before marriage can stop working after marriage, so what do you do, Runaway?


Sex before marriage has advantage and disadvantages. The disadvantages could outweigh the advantages.

Have an open mind discussion if you’re planning for long term relationships-marriage.

Think before you act. A few moment of pleasure could cost you a life time regrets.

Never allow your emotion to betray your sense of reason.

Fall in love but don’t be a fool in love. True love means growing, working and building and succeeding together.

Love honestly and genuinely

1 Corinthians 13

“There is only one happiness in life - to love and to be loved.” -George Sand.

Genuine love is not an expression of emotion. Emotional response is not a response of love. Emotion betrays human sense of reason and purpose. Also, you should learn to separate Marriage from Purpose. Fall in love with someone you can both build each other together, supporting each purpose outside of marriage. A life well lived is one full of many transformations.

Genuine love is sacrifice, emotion is fantasy.

  • You can’t fall in love and fall out of love. When you’re truly in love you’ll continue to be loved.
  • True love grows in our hearts while emotions fade away like vapour.
  • True love protects while fake love abuse.

Immature love says, I love you because I need you. Mature says I need you because I love you.

Yes, have an open frank discussion about your sexual needs while dating/courting before marriage. Penis sex size or any other relationship issues. I believe it shouldn’t be kept secretive about each other. After all, we’re all born naked. Equal energy matters in long term relationships.

Why pretend my beloved to be what you are not?

Many of you pretend too much, hide under religion to live a secretive lives styles, it’s the reason many of you live a double lifestyle and a serial cheater. It heals to be your real self than regret what you think or wish you should have known before marriage. So, discuss your sexual needs with your partner and be open about it. Men and women have different needs, discuss it. Do not let religious pretence and hypocrisy ruin your life.

Never be afraid to fall in love neither should you pretend you’re in love whereas you’re just in for the money, if the shoe hurts you feel it the most. Don’t fall a fool in love but be wise in love.

Hopefully, soon I will publish my book on this subject – “sex” a secretive subject that the church rarely discusses.

Disclaimer, all view expresses here are the opinion of the writer.

We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love. Tom Robbins.