A
bird doesn't call himself monkey just because it can jump from one
branch of a tree to another. Likewise, men of purpose are not
attracted to women by mere skirt and blouse. Rather, her
attraction arouse his attention but his interests is driving by
values that the lady brings to his life.
By
Williams Patrick Praise
"You
loose money chasing women but you never loose women chasing money".
They actually chase after you.
Real
men don't chase women-women chase them because they're driving by the
natural calling of the purpose of man.
What
makes men attractive to women?
1)
Character
2)
Substance
3)
Money
4)
Power
5)
Status
Now,
bear in mind, if a man of substance and means wants a woman, the way
he expresses himself depends on how a
woman present herself. Her demeanour means a lot on how he relate
with her.
Women
in the other hand study men a lot. They relate with men base on the
energy they wish to display, not
exactly her true colour.
It's either positive or negative. Often time some men always let down
their guards, is the reason why a woman may not be educated to
gain a man's trust and rule over him.
A
woman will show you what you want to see but not exactly her true
character. Women are complex and complicated. They're like
chameleons, made up of different part, both simple and complicated.
Its a choice they made to represent their best interests that
benefits them. When they're truly in love with you, they will show
you their true self. That's in rare case. Satan doesn't dress in
black apparels with covering of scaring masks as suggested by
Hollywood and Nollywood movies. He wears sheep clothing not to be
recognized as evil.
But,
the big question is. Does women truly fall in love or they fall in
love with benefits of love?
Is like marriage, does women genuinely wants marriage or the benefits of marriage? Yea, the question is general but it doesn't particularly reflect the thoughts of men and women relationships.
Men, stop trying so hard to build castle in silver and gold to prove your love to a woman. Don't kill yourself before your time. Majority of women know themself but act like they don't – a mystery to themself. Its a psychological game of mental control, they played on men to draw sympathy for the benefits of their own course. Women knows what they want from inception of any relationships. She may sleep and bear children for you but her heart may not be with you. In other words it’s hard for a man to be with a woman without fallen in love with her and revealing his secrets. That could actually become detrimental to his wellbeing.
Is like marriage, does women genuinely wants marriage or the benefits of marriage? Yea, the question is general but it doesn't particularly reflect the thoughts of men and women relationships.
Men, stop trying so hard to build castle in silver and gold to prove your love to a woman. Don't kill yourself before your time. Majority of women know themself but act like they don't – a mystery to themself. Its a psychological game of mental control, they played on men to draw sympathy for the benefits of their own course. Women knows what they want from inception of any relationships. She may sleep and bear children for you but her heart may not be with you. In other words it’s hard for a man to be with a woman without fallen in love with her and revealing his secrets. That could actually become detrimental to his wellbeing.
Men
play by the book of love but most often time women play by emotions
and fantasy. If you are a real man, who falls in love with a woman,
who truly loves you back with her whole heart, you've won jacket.
You've set yourselves on the path of progress and unhindered
prosperity, good health and long life. Nagging is a man's worst
nightmares, it leads to early death, depressions, frustrations and
mental break down. Proverbs
21.9
Its
not wise to chase women, my sons; Rather, learn to build up yourself
and focus on what you want out of live. Live healthy and aim for your
purpose, whatever you lay your hands to do, be the best there.
Don't chase women, wasting precious time and resource. Rather invest
in yourself, stay discipline building a comfortable life for
yourself.
Channel
all your energy doing what's right for yourself, without losing
focus. You will find, as you travel along, you will have many choices
of women to chose from. As you age, you become wiser in the choices
you make, and chosen a life
partner
– someone to share the rest of your life will become easier.
A man with wit naturally attract women because he's stable, because you have your act together, your peace of mind is rather more important than a naked skirt without substance.
A man with wit naturally attract women because he's stable, because you have your act together, your peace of mind is rather more important than a naked skirt without substance.
You may be a blue or white collar guy, it don't matter as long as you're a man of substance, a man of means, have your act together, women will flock to you. Funny enough, when you don't want women that's when they want you. A man of substance, though he has many choices but knows the different when love is real and when it’s just pretence.
You know; unfortunately, women loves men who lies. Why? Because majority of women loves fantasy, live unrealistic lifestyle. Its easier to deceive them with lying tongue than to convince them with truth. Its hard to believe truth when you're used to hearing lies, an unrealistic about relationships. Truth hurts when you're not used to living in truth. Truth heals when you're used to living in truth.
There are loyal men, faithful and loving women in this world. But your natural energy is meant to pursue sincere productivity that makes the world a better place. As you invest in yourself, what you love, sure enough you will meet someone who fits your natural energy. Never be in haste to fly or fall in love lest you walked in hastily and walk out hastily.
Live at your own pace and time.
@WPPraise