MEN OF WIT AND THE WOMEN OF THEIR CHOICE


 A bird doesn't call himself monkey just because it can jump from one branch of a tree to another. Likewise, men of purpose are not attracted to  women by mere skirt and blouse. Rather, her attraction arouse his attention but his interests is driving by values that the lady brings to his life.


By Williams Patrick Praise

"You loose money chasing women but you never loose women chasing money". They actually chase after you.

Real men don't chase women-women chase them because they're driving by the natural calling of the purpose of man.

What makes men attractive to women?

1) Character
2) Substance
3) Money
4) Power
5) Status

Now, bear in mind, if a man of substance and means wants a woman, the way he expresses himself depends on how a woman present herself. Her demeanour means a lot on how he relate with her.

Women in the other hand study men a lot. They relate with men base on the energy they wish to display, not exactly her true colour. It's either positive or negative. Often time some men always let down their  guards, is the reason why a woman may not be educated to gain a man's trust and rule over him.

A woman will show you what you want to see but not exactly her true  character. Women are complex and  complicated. They're like chameleons, made up of different part, both simple and complicated. Its a choice they made to represent their best interests that benefits them. When they're truly in love with you, they will show you their true self. That's in rare case. Satan doesn't dress in black apparels with covering of scaring masks as suggested by Hollywood and Nollywood movies. He wears sheep clothing not to be recognized as evil.

But, the big question is. Does women truly fall in love or they fall in love with benefits of love?

I
s like marriage, does women genuinely wants marriage or the benefits of marriage? Yea, the question is general but it doesn't particularly reflect the thoughts of men and women relationships.

Men, stop trying so hard to build castle in silver and gold to prove your love to a woman. Don't kill yourself before your time. Majority of women know themself but act like they don't – a mystery to themself. Its a psychological game of mental control, they played on men to draw sympathy for the benefits of their own course. Women knows what they want from inception of any relationships. She may sleep and bear children for you but her heart may not be with you. In other
words it’s hard for a man to be with a woman without fallen in love with her and revealing his secrets. That could actually become detrimental to his wellbeing.


Men play by the book of love but most often time women play by emotions and fantasy. If you are a real man, who falls in love with a woman, who truly loves you back with her whole heart, you've won jacket. You've set yourselves on the path of progress and unhindered prosperity, good health and long life. Nagging is a man's worst nightmares, it leads to early death, depressions, frustrations and mental break down. Proverbs 21.9

Its not wise to chase women, my sons; Rather, learn to build up yourself and focus on what you want out of live. Live healthy and aim for your purpose, whatever you lay your hands to do, be the best there.  Don't chase women, wasting precious time and resource. Rather invest in yourself,  stay discipline building a comfortable life for yourself.

Channel all your energy doing what's right for yourself, without losing focus. You will find, as you travel along, you will have many choices of women to chose from. As you age, you become wiser in the choices you make, and chosen a life partner – someone to share the rest of your life will become easier.

A man with wit naturally attract women because he's stable, because you have your act together, your peace of mind is rather more important than a naked skirt without substance.

You may be a blue or white collar guy, it don't matter as long as you're a man of substance, a man of means, have your act together, women will flock to you. Funny enough, when you don't want
women that's when they want you. A man of substance, though he has many choices but knows the different when love is real and when it’s just pretence.

You know; unfortunately, women loves men who lies. Why? Because majority of women loves fantasy, live unrealistic lifestyle. Its easier to deceive them with lying tongue than to convince them with truth. Its hard to believe truth when you're used to hearing lies, an unrealistic about relationships. Truth hurts when you're not used to living in truth. Truth heals when you're used to living in truth.

There are loyal men, faithful and loving  women in this world. But your natural energy is meant to pursue sincere productivity that makes the world a better place. As you invest in yourself,  what you love,  sure enough you will meet someone who fits your natural energy. Never be in haste to fly or fall in love lest you walked in hastily and walk out hastily.

Live at your own pace and time.


@WPPraise