Why Good Men Marry Dysfunctional Bad Women and Why Good Women Marry Bad Men
How to
avoid marriage pitfalls.
by WPPJr
One morning and days
ago, I woke up under a beautifully decked sunshine lace Africa sky, with cloud
land passing before Osanobua God cleanings winds. Children wake to the sounds
of warm, lovely beginnings, with dews on green grasses. The bird sings halleluiah
in their native tongue all day, and only Motherland understands its rhythm. For
when the night falls their singing will be over and the never-ending insect’s
siren siren siren of the night takes over.
There are many parts
to humans, even to themselves that they don't understand and will never fully
grasp, and it's better we leave somethings the way they are and never try to
find the answer to every question you might have on your heart. Riddle is not
meant to be understood by all, and neither is one food intended to be favourite
to everyone. What appeal to A might not be what appeal to Q to Z. Please leave
me as I am. The shoe that I'm wearing fits me quite well, although it may look
weird on your feet. Let me be me as I am just as I am, and you be you just as
you are.
In the beginning, And God saw
everything he has made, and, behold, it was very good. Genesis 1:31
When we seek to
understand all things, we become a victim of what we already know. It’s like
food, folks, die without eating, and people die from overeating. Some eat and
become wise, and others overeat food; it turns them to fools.
I've been studying
human behaviour for a long while now. The more I learn, the more there is more
to understand. Human beings are complex. When you think you've learned so much
about them, suddenly, you discover the new reality about mortality that
surprises you beyond human comprehension. We never finish knowing ourselves
talk less of knowing other people. Only God knows you better than you do
yourself.
We
surprise ourselves all the time. So, expect surprises when you mingle with human
beings.
When you deal with
human beings, expect to see what you don't wish to see. Expect to hear what you
don't want to hear.
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Expect to learn what you never wish to learn.
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Expect to see what you never wish to see
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Expect to smile and laugh.
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Expect to get mad and get cured by the madness or lost forever
in the insanity that's infested in you– God help us all.
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Expect songs of reasons expect songs of foolishness. Age doesn't
guarantee sense. The older some of us get, the more foolish we become. Understanding
comes with age, but wisdom is not guaranteed to everyone.
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Expect the unexpected. Expect fools talk expect wise talk.
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Expect animal behaviour expect human behaviour.
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Expect benevolent expect wickedness,
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Expect tolerant expect intolerance.
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Expect childish behaviour expect adult behaviour but do not
expect too much. The more you expect so much, the more you will be
disappointed.
We expect so much from
people that we become disappointed — so much expectation less delivery. Never
expect from people what you do not have to offer. We're a reflection of what we
see in the world, either positive or negative. If you're good news, give glory
to the Almighty for his blessings. Woe betide the evil ones.
Good men often end up
with evil women and good women usually up with an evil man. Organized men often
end up with dysfunctional women and kind-hearted stable woman often time ends
up with irresponsible, lazy men. The irony of life, some of the decision –
mistakes we make in life we get to live with it every day.
Fortunately, you can
retake individual wrong decisions in this life. Whether it is a wrong career or
relationship decision, you can decide to end that miseries trauma right now.
Some men/women will die an early death due to the dysfunctional woman/man they
have in their lives.
God
did not create us to be a slave to our wrong decision or mistakes.
Peter denies Jesus and
still fulfils a vivid dream by rectifying – retaking his mistakes. Matthew
26:69:75. Often time than not, until we retake a particular decision in our
life's things will never get better for good. Everyone does not have the gut to
retake a walk; only a few works their talk. Some of us talk more than we walk
our talk. Those who do less talk the more. While those who do more talk the
less. Living to some of us is mocking while to others is a gaze in the sun. I
wish you sunshine, dear!
Achievers keep busy in
the womb of conceptions, searching for a better idea to solve the unachievable.
While busybodies are doing the talk, achiever are walking their talk.
Dear friends, please
do not mock those that wear the shoes that hurt, pray for friends so that they
may receive the grace to break the chains and yokes that hold them down. "Relationships
are only hard when only one person's working on it."
Be
careful, my dear friends, how you judge them by the look on their continence. "Charm is deceitful, and beauty is
vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised." Proverbs 31:30 Beautiful attraction is not a guarantee
for good behaviour. Looks is deceitful, it will rob you dry of using your real
human senses.
We must see beyond the
sights. We must examine mortals beyond the natural looks. We must see beyond
the physical and access mortal through inner beauty to understand them
better.
How to
Break Human Relation Chains That Holds You Down
To understand human
behaviour, we ought to learn how to play the fool. If you think yourself wise
in your eye, it is foolishness.
There are human
psychology act mortals play on each other. Evil
women are mostly attracted to good men, and it's the good in the men that draws
her to him because she knows she can easily prey and manipulate him.
I begin with women in
this line of the subject because, after God, women have the most influence over
men. Only a fool takes the power of a woman for granted. Men are the liver, but
women are the heart of the liver.
Evil women always
attract godly benevolent men, they are drawn to them not for the godliness in
them, but for the destruction, they wish to unleased on these innocent men.
Don't
be a fool in Love Wise up Brother and Sister
Dysfunctional women
are attracted to functional, organize men because they know they will easily
thrive in their chaos while the organized man wishes in his small mind; he will
love and change the woman. He becomes the victim of dysfunctionality from the woman
he loves. Once again, don't be a fool in love. Love wisely. A bird doesn't
dance publicly except in a safe nest.
The majority of men
are in prison because of women. Nation has gone to war because of women and
nation also has end wars because of women mediation. Once again, never
underestimate the power of a woman. They hold the key to a stable
family/nation, either good or evil.
I know some people are
always quick to say, there is no divorce in the Bible. However, we're still
ready to quote what we don't understand to suit our limited reason. In
contrast, Jesus made a very bold statement about Moses issuing a divorce
certificate in the Bible. Matthew 19. God's original plans weren't divorced,
but because people have a hardened heart, that's why there is divorce. The
truth is, many people are living with devils, both male and female alike, who
prefer religion to hold their victims in the chain, in the name of religious
sentiment. Religion is a mental disease, and it hinders mortal from serving the
true God. It is the rules and the tradition of men that impede the work of
Christ.
The truth is bitter. Marriage has no eternal
value; Debate with sense.
It is to fulfil the desire of the flesh. Your wife or husband may make you miss heaven. Folks fall out of love because, in the beginning, they didn't marry for love; it was just to use someone to step up. No more, no less. You can never pretend to be in love forever. Soonest reality will catch up with you. Genuine love is base 1 Corinthians 13. Anything out of that will never last. God never falls out of love with us, so likewise, we never fall out of love when we genuinely fall in love with someone.
Many
good women end up marrying bad men schemers.
Evil men are attracted
to kind-hearted women. They take advantage of their vulnerability. An insecure
man is pretty violence because violence is the weapon of the weak to suppress
the strong. You don't need to hit someone to make a point, but you can break
people without throwing a blow.
Why do
we have this problem? Will it ever stop. Capital NO!
Men will always prey
on women, and women will still manipulate men. Some fall in love and end up
dead while others fall in love and blissed. With toxic partner a disagreement will turn
into an argument that will turn into a bigger problem. But with a Divine
partner a disagreement will turn into a conversation that will lead towards a
solution.
If you are in the chain
through the wrong relationship choice you've made, you have a right to break
yourself free. Do not allow what people will say or your emotion make you miss
out in life.
Understanding human
psychology
Man/woman
dilemma
Children – in
marriage's original purpose is to strengthen the family bond. Still, toxic
marriage with children can also make it difficult for a victim in a bad
relationship to break free from bad relationship choices. It takes men or women
with a strong will to break free from toxic relationships. It reaches a point
abnormality/dysfunctionality is accepted as norms.
Some people –
men/women, are so used to abuse because they've endured it for too long, they
think it's the norms, and that's how life goes. You wonder what that woman or
man is still doing in the relationship. Women and men are equal victims of
abusive relationships.
No one
is worth living for except God, man and woman of good conscience.
Fall
in love, but don't be a fool and acting the fool just because you said you are
in love, enduring dysfunctionality in the name of foolishness.
Some folks are incredibly
evil dysfunctional and are willing to go to hell by dragging others along with
them. To hell with your hellish life thou daughter of Jezebel. Thou son of disobedience
may God have mercy upon thy soul. I will rather chase my peaceful ways while
you go with your destructive and dysfunctional habits, thou son and daughter of
Satan.
What some folks called
marriage/relationship is nothing but bondage. Bible said Moses started issuing
divorce certificates because people's hearts hardened. Matthew 19:8. Nothing has
changed. Humanity is still humanity. It is always the same sun that shines
during Moses days that still shines today; Same rain, weather, same Adam and Eve
descendants. God is still the same, ever-loving, faithful, and merciful, while
men consistently increased in their evil ways.
You've one life to
live, make your best choice decision. Desire wisdom and may the God of peace
grant you eternal peace of mind, health and surround you with loving kind-hearted
people. Ise and Amen.
WPPJr
Editor - In - Chief- esanland.org
wpp@williamspatrickpraise.com